We had a blessed and wonderful Christmas this year! I not only had the honor of hosting our Christmas for the first time but we also got to welcome Taren into our family this Christmas. Drew and I had talked about how we wanted to do Christmas for our family, what traditions were important to us to carry on and what we wanted to do differently. This Christmas was the perfect combination of incorporating the new with the old and some of Taren's traditions as well.
I spent the weeks leading up to Christmas preparing and planning. Buying presents from Drew and I and from Mom to all the family got to be a little overwhelming and combined with pregnancy discomfort sleeping was not a restful time the prior weeks to Christmas. It turned out to be all worth it as every moment we spent together as a family was truly special. Patrick came in early Christmas week and we got to spend some time with just him which was very special for Mom. We went out for Mexican food, looked at Christmas lights and had breakfast at Cracker Barrel before checking off the last of his Christmas list. Christmas Eve brought Taren with it and we enjoyed relaxing at home watching Christmas movies with a few last minute errands sprinkled throughout the day. Drew grilled out steaks for a fantastic Christmas Eve dinner sitting around the table discussing past Christmas' and listening to Michael Buble's Christmas album. Being a house full of adults and a toddler the anticipation of Santa Claus was a little less immediate so after putting Everett to bed we watched Christmas Vacation, which is one of Taren's Christmas traditions. I made Mom's traditional Egg Nog drink and Taren tried it for the first time and loved it. After the movie and Mom went to bed we busted out Mario on the Wii and stayed up late playing. Drew and I went to bed not quite ready for Christmas to come because with it went another year and Everett growing up even more.
Christmas Morning I woke up for my usual pregnancy pee and came back to bed to Drew ready to start the coffee and breakfast for the day... it was 6:21. I had to talk him down like an excited child. I had planned on Mom being the first to wake up somewhere around 7:30 so I was surprised to find it was actually my husband who was the first one awake. By 7 Everett began to make awake noises and Drew couldn't wait any longer for coffee so we got up. For maybe the 3 time in his past year of life Everett would not stop crying as we got him out of bed although he had already been awake. Within minutes Patrick was coming around the corner awakened by Everett's tears and Taren was soon to follow. I had to wake Mom up from her slumber... a very fitting scene for our past Christmas experiences of Ryan, Patrick, and I screamed at the top of our lungs to wake Mom so we could see what Santa brought us. Finally Mom was up and ready, Drew, Patrick and Taren were all drinking coffee and Johnny Mathis was on the stereo it was time to see if Santa made it to our house this year.
I walked Everett in to see what Santa had brought him as Drew recorded him. Santa was super generous having left Everett an adorable teepee for his room, an over sized stuffed fox and stocking filled to the brim. The first thing Everett saw after the fox and teepee were some dinosaurs tucked away in his stocking, a few roars from him and he was done looking at anything else! The rest of us were gifted with great stockings packed full of goodies!
Over the past few years I have struggled with Mom's Christmas stocking and gifts. She doesn't get as excited as she once did about gifts. It is a battle to find something she will recognize upon opening and something she needs or wants. As she woke up in a good mood this Christmas morning, she sifted through her stocking and remarked on how pretty things were. A jewelry box she had loved in the store, a stuffed kitten, a coral scarf, candy, and pajamas were some of the things I put in there hoping she would recognize. Once she gave everything a once over without taking anything out of her basket she was done and sat in a happy silence watching everyone around her. It is a hard scene to watch on any day but especially Christmas.
We took a break for breakfast before diving into our family tree where we were all overly blessed with unnecessary presents. As I have grown up the part of Christmas that has become most exciting for me has been gifting presents to others. I was excited for each present to be opened that I had purchased with thought and hope that the opener would love each item. Everett took pride and excitement tearing into his presents on his own which was fun for us to watch. We spent the rest of the day watching Christmas movies and spending time together. For dinner we headed over to Aunt Tammy and Rhonda's house for our big family tree. One of the greatest blessings of being here in Amarillo is getting to spend time with our extended family, especially on holidays. Surrounded by loved ones we showered one another in gifts from the names we had drawn before with everyone buying for the kids. This being Taren's first Christmas in the family everyone decided to gift her each with a present.
Baby girl Haven had her first presents under the tree this year. A sweet little dress bought for her by her Dad, some pink converse from her big brother, and pink longhorn paci's and a plaque from her Aunt Nene, Uncle Lane and cousins Norah and baby boy Fort. I was overly emotional to open presents for our sweet girl and thinking about celebrating next year with two precious babies in our home.
Overall it was such a precious evening spent with loved ones celebrating our favorite holiday!
Yes I sure did put Harper on the Christmas card only to 2 months later change the name to Haven! Sorry Haven but for a short time you were officially known as Harper.