Valentines Day and the crash afterwards

Yesterday was an absolutely Lovely day.... LOVELY I say, as a day of "LOVE" should be!

I started my day off with an extra good workout. Ran further and pushed myself harder. Felt great afterwards.

I went home and did the dishes at 7:00 in the morning, I was in THAT good of a mood.

When I got to work my sweet boyfriend was waiting for me with a BEAUTIFUL arrangement of flowers.

I had lunch with Mom and Nana at this little cafe I love. They have the best mixed greens salad with fruit and nuts on it... DELICIOUS. They accompany it with a great yellow squash quiche that just makes me feel happy when I eat it.

I gave them both their Valentine's Day gifts. Mom a purse that she wanted, Nana a giftcard to Barnes and Noble for her next book to purchase on her Nook.

 Valentine's Day is so much more to me than just about sharing Love between a man and a woman it is to share Love that you feel for everyone in your lives, so they got treated extra special yesterday!

I went back to work and it was a wonderful day, there is something about having a beautiful bouquet of flowers sitting next to you that makes you smile.

Afterwork I ran to Mom and Nana's house... they had a little something waiting for me. Amazing shower gel from Victoria Secret from Nana and Awesome black booties from Mom. It was like my Birthday all over again... totally feeling Loved on by all.

Kelsey was there so I gave her her Valentine's Day goodie bag... lots of PINK... nailpolish, blush, lip gloss, and some mascara (it wasn't pink), she was on cloud 9. Kelsey is our Valentine's Angel so we love on her extra hard this day.

I sent an awesome yellow/gold orchid to Aunt Tammy.

Drew and I made a steak meal together last night complete with Outback style green beans, mashed potatoes, and scallops (definitely need to work on my scallop cooking!!)

I gave him the two Harley Davidson shirts I had picked out... the only two I could tolerate seeing him in that didn't look too biker boy.

He gave me the most beautiful silver necklace with a Canadian diamond with the matching earrings.... my guy knows how to treat me well!

It was such a perfect night with just the right combination of romance and chill. We watched the latest episode of Parenthoold while lounging on the couch.

I went home to find a sweet spaghetti set from Neeley and an awesome bag with chocolate wine and fun goodies from my Aunt Tammy.

Wonderful Valentines Day!

So I woke up this morning still riding the Valentine's Day high. Jumped out of bed got ready to work out just knowing I would have as good of a workout or better than yesterday.

I was pulling away from my house headed down the street as my snooze alarm went off... I took my eye off the road for 1 sec to locate the noise and BOOM.... I ran right into the neighbor two houses down's car parked on the street. I moved it about 5 feet and caused it to go up on the curb.

Neeley had just left the back of the house and was coming down the street as I waved her down,  just knowing that the car was totally smashed in on the passenger side. Luckily my damage wasn't too bad and his didn't look that bad. We banged on the poor guys door for 15 minutes and he could have cared less at 5:30 in the morning.

My first wreck ever that was my fault... EVER! Drew and Aunt Tammy came over to assess the damages both deciding it was ok to drive.

I realized this is the life of a grown-up. I didn't freak out, I calmly assessed the situation and took mature steps to rectify it. I don't know it is because I work in insurance or that I know I am capable of handling this situation but I felt like a grown-up.

Diamonds one night... a wreck the next morning. Doesn't get more real than that!

Buried.

Yesterday I worked for half a day and then took the rest off to be with Drew. His 33 yo cousin's funeral was yesterday, she lost her battle with cancer last week.

I had met her one time, briefly and just before she was to be moved to hospice. Drew hadn't seen her in a while but they shared fond memories of growing up together.

I held his hand as tears streamed down his eyes during the service. I was so touched and honored to be apart of his life in this moment and to offer him some strengtg as he has so much over the past year and a half for me.

Her burial was at Memorial Gardens cemetery, the same place my beloved Grandy is laid to rest along with Mommy, Papa, Aunt Cora, Aunt Patsy and Uncle Jack.

I meandered towards their graves as we were waiting for the hearse to arrive. I had been at this place too many times for funerals but never seen all the graves of my heritage laid together.

After the service Drew and I walked to where Grandy was buried.... he still has no marker on his grave. As we walked around trying to figure out which unmarked spot held his remains I lost it.

I couldn't fathom knowing his body lay feet beneath me. Knowing I was physically so close and couldn't touch him.

I have often had nightmares about what state a body/casket would be so many months after being put in the Earth.

Yesterday it hit me all to real and all to fast that I was without him.

Friday Funday

Whoever you are, or whatever it is that you do, when you really want something, it's because that desire originated in the soul of the universe. It's your mission on earth. And when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it." - Paulo Coelho

Friday... you are a welcomed friend!

I do not have much planned for this weekend except maybe sleeping in and reading a good book. Drew's cousin passed away from cancer early this morning and so I am sure we will be doing something with that like babysitting kids or taking flowers.

Good movies coming out today... The Vow, which is promising to be a heart-wrencher and Safehouse, action packed with Denzel and Ryan.

Two days ago my Nana was presented with a commerative plaque for a scholarship endowment from ACU that has been set up in Grandy and hers name. I was so proud to be apart of their legacy, so proud of their faithfulness and their impact on the community and people around them. One day some kid will recieve the Dr. Everett and Peggy Blanton scholarship fund and get a chance to experience the fun filled world of ACU because of them. So awesome!!


In honor of the oncoming wedding season (startng in April this year) I FINALLY posted some photos from last season on my photography blog here

Cooper turns 2 today!

Today is my sweet baby's birthday.... 2 YEARS OLD! He looks like he could be 10 but he's not! Just 2 years and has so much love to give. He lights up everytime he sees me and loves to have his belly scratched. He loves to smell, sniff and lick anything he can and I am so very proud he has kept his beautiful grooming for a full week now, it is supposed to rain / snow today so I am sure he will be a mess when I get home. I am making Drew grill him a steak when he gets off to celebrate!

I had read the first book in Nora Robert's the Bride Quartet a couple  of months ago. It was so good and I could hardly put it down. In an effort to be more rounded in my reading I put off reading the second book until I had read something a bit more ... informative. So I have been struggling to read Still Alice for the past couple of months.

The book was good, very informative about Early-Onset Alzheimer's and helped me know more about what my Mom is facing and feeling with the disease. However after reading it I was emotionally exhausted and needed a retreat back to the light hearted.... welcome Bed of Roses by Nora Roberts, book 2 in the Bridal Quartet.



I read this book in 2 days... 2 DAYS people! So good. It sucks you right in with the romance and sexy flings. I hardly noticed that Drew as out of town this weekend as I spent Friday night, Saturday morning and Sunday morning curled up in bed with this book. Loved it! I was so sad when it was over I immediately downloaded the third book on my Ipad and am halfway through it. I haven't read through a series this fast since the Shopaholic's in Highschool.

Whitney I am thinking I am gonna send them to you to keep you entertained in Africa.

On another note: I left my Mom and Nana's last night and went Drew's where he tricked me into eating deer meat queso- it was actually amazing! and had the sweetest suprise for me...

MARSH-MALLOW POPCORN!!! This stuff is the ABSOLUTE BEST!

I haven't been able to find it in years and he found it for me. Sweet Sweet Man!

the Big Texan

A couple of Friday night's ago Drew, Mom and I were trying to figure out how to spend our evening... as there is not much to do round here and usually everything revolves around eating we wanted to go eat somewhere new... and boy did we get it.

If you are unfamiliar with this little neck of the woods known as Amarillo let me just clue you in on something, as you begin approaching Amarillo even from as far as 2 hours away (I don't know how many miles that would be) you begin to see signs fearturing a FREE 72 OZ. STEAK only at THE BIG TEXAN. This restauraunt is one of Amarillo's most known landmarks. It is a ginormous restaurant made to look like an old western saloon complete with a huge cowboy statue out front and his giant cow. There is a giftshop, casino, candy shop, and much much more. Travelers from all over will come stop here to eat and take part in the fun as they are passing through. It was reported a couple of years ago that Johnny Depp himself had stopped by while he was headed to New Mexico to film a movie, However upon seeing the photos I blew that story to shreads for those who are not so savvy in the world-o-Johnny and had not seen him on an awards show the day before with short short hair where as this fellow had shoulder length. The Free 72 oz. steak is a bit misleading as you must eat the HUGE steak, a baked potato, salad, 3 fried shrimp, and salad in 69 minutes. Many have tried, many have failed, but it adds to the fun of the evening if someone tries it while you are there. The whole place starts whooting and hollaring for the poor soul who actually thought he could eat it all.... if you can't complete the task then you are left with the bill which I think is like $118.00. Anywhoo needless to say this is a place for the memory books when visting Amarillo.

So as Drew, Mom and I are driving around thinking we will probably go to our usual, Texas Roadhouse, Drew gets the idea to head on out to the Big Texan.



After waiting a little while we finally were seated in the back corner of the dining hall with a terriffic view of all game decorating the walls. The walls are decorated with old reminants from back in the day and there is a trio of acoustic country musicians who walk around serenading you with your song of choice at your table-- that part is pretty much my worst nightmare. Drew passed for us when it came to our turn, although I have no doubt Grandy would have chosen Amarillo by Morning to be sung to him as he ate.

This was one of the first smiles Mom cracked all night-- I think she had her heart set on Texas Roadhouse.

We came in right after a 50+ member biker gang and so we had to wait an insanely long time for our food. Just as we were getting our food a college kid and one of the biker dudes decided to partake in the challenge.

The worst part about doing the steak challenge is you can't just sit and eat with your friends, you have to sit on a platformed stage for all to see with a clock over your head counting down your time.

We left before either of them finished but with the survey I took as we walked out of the food left it didn't look hopeful.

Mom's second real smile of the night as I begged her to take a picture with me to remember this fun night!

As we were leaving Drew delcared he could ABSOLUTELY eat the 72 oz. Steak meal so I am definitely going to make sure we come back for him to prove that statement true!

Late Birthday Post

A few weeks ago we celebrated Mom's Birthday. Her Birthday fell on the same night that little miss Kelsey had a Cheerleading performance at WT. So we all went down to watch Kelsey in this year's routine of her squad with CheerTX then headed to dinner to celebrate Mom.

There is not a happier girl in the world than this one when she wears that uniform. She is such a delight to watch-- her entire squad gives you the chills to watch and see the Joy that cannot be robbed from these sweet kids when they get to do something they love so much!

Mom doing what we all now call "the Kelsey"-- a pose that MUST be done when you recieve new clothes for your Birthday. Nana, Aunt Tammy, Kelsey herself and now Mom have all done it for their birthdays!

Mom had her helper beside her the whole time while she opened presents and celebrated. Our two red heads!

and Finally here is Mom with the BEA-U-TIFUL flowers that Patrick sent to her- nothing better than getting flowers on your birthday!

I didn't take any photos on my birthday - but I had a great one! I woke up Sunday morning (we go to church Satruday nights so I got to sleep in) and Neeley fixed me a breakfast for champions served in bed no less! As we snuggled in to watch a Lifetime movie on tv Drew came over with the most lovely striped red roses he then made me some delicious pancakes! I hung out for most of the day and then had a wonderful dinner of Chicken  and Rice ( my FAVORITE) at Nana and Mom's and was surrounded by lots of family to celebrate. I even got a homemade German Chocolate Cake by my Aunt Tammy-- The BEST!

Sad to post about January birthdays in February but that is how life has been rolling. Hoping to catch up and post more soon!



Trusting in God's plan

Yesterday was a hard day for me and my family.

Mom, Aunt Tammy and I all traveled down to Abilene Tuesday night to be at divorce mediation the following morning.

I had tried to work very hard to ensure that Mom would never have to lay eyes on Gary, therefore we arrived 30 min. before our start time and were swiftly tucked back into a private room with her attorney.

I sat in that room and was instantly saddened. Saddened by the circumstances, saddened by the scared look on my Mom's face knowing her future would be changed based on that day's decisions, saddened that she fell for a horrible man's lies and maniuplation. I was selfishly sad for myself and Patrick that we were 26 and 24 years old sittting in a room speaking on behalf of the only parent we have left... trying to slay a dragon with no law to back us up.

I do  not want to get into all the details of the day because that is my Mom's private business.... However I will say that we walked away from yesterday's experience knowing evermore that there is no faith or hope in this fallen world of ours. We must only put our faith and hope in the one who has conqured it all.

No mountain is to high, no valley to low for him to abandon us.... he will guide us through lifes storms as we remain faithful followers of his light.

My Mom is surrounded by a strong and present family who forms a protective shield around her. Yesterday that consisted of  Patrick, Aunt Tammy and myself in the physical but so many many more were praying for her. I believe our prayers were not unanswered but will come to be in God's timing and in a much more magnificent maner than we can imagine.

I am so incredibly proud of my Mom for being the strong woman she is, for putting her trust in the lord and not man, and for realizing Family is the most important thing.

I am proud of Patrick who came to be strong for Mom even when that meant being silent. For showing us what a real man looks like.

I am so thankful and grateful for my Aunt Tammy who showered us with love and encouragement when each of us wanted to lose it and for being the strong presence that pushed the limits.

We walk forward into the future with mistakes and pasts behind us, we walk forward looking to the eternal life promised to those who believe and with some sadness walk away from a seed that was turned into a thorn knowing that God will have justice in the end.

We look foward to the light!